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11-Jul-2020 01:27

Is it too much of an ask that I could actually meet someone who can see me as a woman, and not just as mother or worse, a bit of bedroom fun? I know Everest is high, but SOME people get up the damn thing, don’t they?

Dear Christina, Before I give you the pep talk you need, let me first acknowledge the painful truths that you’ve eloquently outlined above. Having four kids under the age of 9 is a huge handicap.

It seems almost impossible for men to see past that.

Well, let me clarify: I have no shortage of “dates”. I have an outgoing personality and seem to be asked out a lot…

And if the greatest gift a woman can give a man is her time, who are men going to gravitate towards – the harried mom who has to manage four lunches, babysitters, soccer practice, and bedtime routines – or the one who is blissfully unencumbered by such essential responsibilities?

Put yourself in their shoes and it’s pretty easy to see.

I am not looking for a provider; I provide very well for myself.

Whether it’s fair or not is debatable, but that’s how I felt at the time.

I’d venture to guess that your sex-oriented guys feel the same way. You shouldn’t quit because single men your age want sex and more time.

You shouldn’t quit because single men your age want sex and more time. So I stay away from that for the same reasons that men stay away from women with children..

You should just find a guy who is looking for a Brady Bunch family, who sees sex as the icing on the cake instead of the cake itself. Today, I’m giving you my new book, “Believe in Love – 7 Steps to Letting Go of Your Past, Embracing the Present, and Dating with Confidence.” and it’s going to forever change the way you view dating, men, and relationships. That said, you are right, there are a few men out there that want to blend a family.

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